I've not played the original but god knows how grindy that must be because even with this I had to go through scenes over and over and over again trying to find new stuff ... would be much better if the options were highlighted if there was something new down that path, but I imagine that'd be a pain to code.
Also, somewhat related to NTR is a couple errors in the game, and I'm leaving this bit out of a spoiler box so hopefully the dev notices...
When you help with the laundry and choose the bottom option (I swear I'll get hard this time) ... then you're given 2 more options ... regardless of which of these you choose you then get the same thing of "No interuptions this time" or "I heard someone coming" ... if you chose the someone coming bit you then get an error you've gotta roll back where it says
While running game code:
File "game/dinner_laundry.rpy", line 1076, in script
jump NTR1
ScriptError: could not find label 'NTR1'.
or
While running game code:
File "game/dinner_laundry.rpy", line 1219, in script
jump NTR2
ScriptError: could not find label 'NTR2'.
Depending on which of the options you picked in the middle, I saw someone mentioned it earlier but only one of them ... not missing anything good though as it just shows and earlier scene.