I understand where you're coming from, but to me it seems he is just along for the ride, willing to go as far (or as little) as whoever he's with is willing. Be it Haley, Sandra, or even Dianne and Lisa. That's why I was impressed with him getting Sandra out of her comfort zone in the changing room. He's actually TAKING CHARGE and PUSHING BOUNDARIES for a change. Which is why I see it as a good development for his relationship with Haley. Because I agree, she's been holding back and waiting for him to take the next move but until now, he hadn't shown any inclination to do more than follow her lead.