Dessolos was suggesting some things that ERYNN could've done some things differently to reach the MC... amongst those suggestions was using Alexis as some sort of bridge.
I didn't debate his suggestions, Alexis or the others.
I simply answered that there's good evidence that Erynn tried and tried again to reach the MC.
We see it happen on screen when she goes to his house but Emily convinces Erynn otherwise.
In addition to the one time we see on screen... both parties(MC and Erynn, so there's no confusion this time) also remember how she tried to reach him again and again while he still lived there, and then sent letters after he moved.
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Dessolos quoted me back and he seemed to understand that i was speaking about Erynn.