Not sure why people have such an affinity toward Andres, no matter how fiendish Nyx makes him there will always be people championing his cause, all because he coerced a single mother into a marriage and helped with her kid.
It's simple, really. I like Andres much less than I hate Santi, as the latter is an absentee father who I'll never respect because to me, nothing and no one is more important than being with your children. I may drop Andres one day, but accepting Santi? Never happening.
Only reason I don't have this opinion is because Andres ultimatum towards Emily to me is basically just as bad as Santi never being around to me. And honestly it's adds a layer of what if's to me cause for all I know he did want to reconnect sooner but Emily said No because of Andres. So because of that I find it easy to give Santi a 2nd chance not that I will forgive him but a chance to see if he wants to make some kind of effort now.
We're just gonna end up going in circles, Andres is the reason Santi couldn't have been there.
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Yes we are, because I believe that Andres's ultimatum is something only Emily had to care about, not Santiago, and something neither of them had to care about after the divorce.
You're kinda late, I believe we're already closing the show.
The issue is the ultimatum is the reason the rift between Emily and Santi was so prevalent, to the point that Santi realised she wanted to keep his baby and her new/old boyfriend would be helping her raise it. It's not about Emily's situation, it was her choice at the behest of her man that caused the issues. I won't fault Santi for reading the bright neon "fuck off" signs that Emily was clearly projecting and him actually doing it. His son would have a mother, a father figure and no messy upbringing because he opted to drag his baby mother through court.
And I will, I've already mentioned why. Besides, Emily removed those signs later anyway.
In other words, he let others do all the work. Off he goes! Also, what's the court if we take the situation after the divorce? What you're justifying Santi's absence with had already happened by then. Do you still think Santi would fail to gain the MC's sympathy and irreparably damage his relations with Emily?
By your logic, even post-divorce he would still have been an absentee father and thereby unforgivable, so not sure what you're getting at.
Nah, post-divorce it was still salvageable, because MC wasn't adult yet, soon to be entering teenage years - a very difficult life stage. Guiding MC through it would redeem Santi in my eyes. He only turned unforgivable to me after MC turned 18 while Santi himself turned out to not have other kids.
I can agree with you that Santiago shouldn't have done it on his own. But he could've and should've persuaded Emily to do it, now that Andres was out of the picture.
And I see Santiago as an irresponsible fuckboy who pumped and dumped, then became mildly concerned about the result, got satisfied that some other people will do the work for him, and went on to have a life of luxury and pleasure, completely removing the human being most important to him - the MC - from his life.
You know what would make his teenage years more difficult than your parents going through a divorce? Finding out that your father isn't your father and your parents have been lying to you all your life, as well as them divorcing.
That's a weird way to say "He was ghosted by a girl he dated, who happened to get pregnant and he moved on after months of no contact". Once again, a result of an ultimatum set by someone who should've had no say in the matter.
We discussed it already. I firmly believe that solely blaming Andres for it and showering MC with presents and getting him to meet Zo would fix it, because:
Hell, bullies like Ethan would stop harassing the MC and follow him around like puppies, seeking his friendship. It might've gone as far as the MC getting a real shot with Erynn back then. Pure speculation though, but not completely ungrounded one.
Excuse me? When you're making a deal where you're burdened with someone else's child for 18 years, you totally deserve a say on the matter! Not that Santiago should've given any fucks about it once he learned… But we've already been there, too.
Well he is making it happen, one steak at a time...
Are you really trying to argue that Andres was well within his rights to deny the biological father access to his son? If so, put the crack pipe down...
From law standpoint? I really don't know, as I'm clueless about American law.
He wasn't offered any deal...
Okay, my mistake. But it doesn't change anything. That Andres himself offered it proves that he's stupid, but it doesn't make him any more wrong in my eyes.
