Hey, there is nothing to take personally, I enjoy a friendly discussion. I didn't really read through the discord so I don't have any insight about her mindset there.
Of course the game is an (very extreme) over the top femdom fantasy world. But as someone who played a lot of femdom games (mostly from male developers, which I think are not misandristic), the lack of male agency/extremly bad treated males is pretty normal in those fantasies (I also have to admit that I enjoy gentle/loving/conseting femdom much more than what is given us here so far, even though that is a problem of femdom porn over all

).
But of course you can have a different opinion, especially if you only play/enjoy the dom path.I also see the dom path more as a cuckold fantasy bull path

(with all the humiliation for other males, especially in the newer episodes), since it lacks "real" male domination on a level compared to the femdom.