- Oct 13, 2016
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there's no we and them.
its not that we need to chose side. we should stick with our own tastes and thoughts.
its not that I agree all the time with the ntr-lovers or that I never agree with the ntr-avoiders.
sure, we have a "bunch" of people that ruins it for everybody that are closed minded and will never move an inch to try to be understanding or are willingly to compromise. but we also have people that try to be understanding.
the problem is that we have too many people discussing in all kinds of positions. it tends to push it to the extreme because everybody are trying to defend their own position on the matter. I do that as well and eventually my arguments tends to go the wrong direction, this to make a point against those closed minded people that never move an inch, never try to compromise, but instead always put their own position as the only position that everybody else should take.
it could be that I reach a good compromise with a member, and I feel, this was a good discussion, its a give and take, but immediately the next post, theres a closed minded dude that ruins it all with his egocentric perspective that claims to have all truth and the rights to do so, with insulting behavior and bad attitude, that will push us further away and increase the polarization.
its not that we need to chose side. we should stick with our own tastes and thoughts.
its not that I agree all the time with the ntr-lovers or that I never agree with the ntr-avoiders.
sure, we have a "bunch" of people that ruins it for everybody that are closed minded and will never move an inch to try to be understanding or are willingly to compromise. but we also have people that try to be understanding.
the problem is that we have too many people discussing in all kinds of positions. it tends to push it to the extreme because everybody are trying to defend their own position on the matter. I do that as well and eventually my arguments tends to go the wrong direction, this to make a point against those closed minded people that never move an inch, never try to compromise, but instead always put their own position as the only position that everybody else should take.
it could be that I reach a good compromise with a member, and I feel, this was a good discussion, its a give and take, but immediately the next post, theres a closed minded dude that ruins it all with his egocentric perspective that claims to have all truth and the rights to do so, with insulting behavior and bad attitude, that will push us further away and increase the polarization.