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Best friend's daughter = are you going to treat her as your own daughter or do you want your head caved in? That point aside, yes there is the moral issue, you've been asked to look after her, but not that way. Mind you your BF has dumped a lot of shit on your doorstep so everything's got a bit murky.But you are dealing with your best friend's daughter.. Some serious moral issues there man
ETA - they both seem very conscious of the shit storm to come and have mentioned having to speak to, at least, Andi about the relationship.
Your statement is at odds with where my moral line would be. Hugs and support - fine, sleeping with? seriously dodgy ground and if she needs that support at night do it outside the bedroom, it stops mixed signals. ETA - however, this is only a work of fiction.Yeah I know, plus the girl is going through a hard time, so sleeping together and the such is fine. But when you introduce the nude thing you're already far beyond the caretaker role.
Also she is a virgin and has asked to take it slow....so....do you respect her wishes or push her to do stuff she's not comfortable with?