Again, I'm not saying sites like this one don't add anything to the game's patronage. Just that the contribution of pirate sites is demonstrably less than sites like reddit and the developers' deviantart. As for the lack of updates part, ever since I joined in December, we've had 4 updates. That's 4 updates in 6 months. That's not bad, it could be better of course but that score is better than a lot of my peers. The last game currently has around 700k views. That's a decent amount of exposure. It's just that that exposure didn't translate as well into patronage. Well, the developers could gain a third-person perspective on their game for one thing.Of course you have had more issues with non-NTR fans since for the longest time you had an NTR game. Even when the non-NTR path was added and for some time afterwards you had an NTR game with some avoidable scenes.
I have stated in many discussions groups on Fzone about the contribution this site makes to get developers patrons. I have had this conversation with the developers themselves. You are the first one ever to deny my claim. Perhaps your lack of support from this site has to do more with the lack of updates. Your game is not discussed in other forums so the only times players hear about it is when it appears in Latest Updates or when you get some buzz in What's New because of all the discussion. As far as your last game (and I am not trying to be rude), perhaps one of the reasons it failed was because it was not getting sponsors from this site. In any case, why would developers (including you) engage in discussions here if the site was meaningless?
If you do a poll about NTR content in your game, I would suggest not only having "Keep" or "Lose" choices, but also a "Don't Care" option.
And yeah, adding a "don't care" option is good thinking.