i must say personally i don't want the harem scenerio. a single girlfriend/love interest of my own choosing (from the female choices in the game.) would suit me fine. i enjoy the challenges of the relationships, i mean i don't get the idea of mom, sister(s) and all other female characters falling head over heals in love with me then being okay that i am having sexual relationships with all the other females in the game (i know a lot of players want this, but) to me that is just really boring! if mom and sister(s) in particular end up with other men then i find that better, i mean are the men good or bad? do they treat my mom and/or sister(s) good or bad? should i step in and stop it or let it continue? how does it change the relationship between me, my mom and/or sister(s)? will my girlfriend support my choices or not? if some other guy comes on to my girlfriend (even if it is my mom or sister.) will i let it playout or will i stop him? is my girlfriend bi-sexual or not? for that matter is my mom and/or sister(s) bi-sexual or even straight up lesbian(s)? will me and the girls all stay close or will some or all of us end up hating each other? for me all these things can make the game so much better! than just having the: hey look at me i never got challenged, and i managed to get all the girls in the game to be my own personal harem, so aren't i a clever boy? now that's what i call a boring game!