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Thisfor what she constantly puts the MC through
All the shit started really from the day she came back into his life and appeared at his door. Doesn't really matter what she did in college. That she intentionally withheld it...then lied....it all snowballs from there. Have you seen my excel timeline posted in the OP? Real eye opening seeing all her fuck ups over 4 months laid out neatly in a row...
100% thisThe easy answer is because she doesn't really give a fuck, the easier is for narrative purposes.
This..but see below...Not considering that the issues (such as the PTSD) MC has are all related to abandonement and betrayal trauma more than co dependency.
100^ this. So, I'm of the opinion he is not actually that co-dependant or dependant on her at all. The writing (like many things in this story) just make it seem that way. End of the day, he has specifically stated he'd prefer to just fuck off somewhere far away (ideally with the Goddess that is Kelly). Lacey during the Three Weeks of Jared was barely around and barely even saw her, let alone speak to her for the duration of the third week. Lacey is always off somewhere, doing something...without the MC.MC has already shown that he would rather leave than commit suicide
The MC was just fine during all these periods...went to work...came home, did his thing. Even without Mia and Anna for a lot of it. He was even on his way out of the door to a hotel at one point remember? Is that the actions of someone utterly and completely dependant on someone else? He is not dependant at all really (he may at times think he is), just the writing makes it seem that way. His issue is that now he is 'officially' with her, more betrayal. That he cannot deal with. I think if she left him for some amazing job in Timbuctoo...he'd be fine with it. Leabving for another man...that's a big issue in his head.
Let us also not forget, after the cliff phone call...the MC went twelve...whole...months...with no contact from her...and almost 6 months with very little contact from Anna (except a call at weekend, he never saw her either). The MC was...yup, you guessed it...just fine. He got a job, a place of his own...on his own...and he was...just...fine.
He just needs no bullshit, lies and drama.
If the only way he will get that is to leave, he has already shown, undeniable, that he is prepared to do that, until one of the girls gaslights him into staying....thus we come back to the same old argument from months ago. He needs to leave, he needs a seperation, permanent or otherwise (and weirdly, I think he probably knows if he leaves her, every single one of his issues will resolved immediately) and have the conviction to not blame himself or worry about any threats from a certain demonic succubus called
Hell...it says a lot when, let's be honest, he'd be better off with a fucking succubus than his wife.....