1)That's not even remotely realistic, though. If the MC never tells a girl he wants to be with her, why would she just sit around waiting for the MC? She has no idea he wants her. It's the same for other activities.
2)Just because someone's open to do things doesn't mean they're just waiting for the chance to do them. When a dev says it never happens unless you choose it, I take that as basically meaning that as long as you don't put the thought into their heads in the first place, the girls won't get into stuff you don't like. I don't see what is so complicated about saying "it never happens". Like, why is that a sticking point if you can completely avoid the possibility of something you dislike?
1)what? no really what are you talking about? your talking about some hypothetical LI that wasn't picked? We are Talking about Harem, my dude, that girl doesn't exist.
First if we don't take one girl for what ever reasons. Then she needs to fuck off, we didn't pick her so we evidently don't want to see her having sex, obviously not with the MC and even more so not with anybody else. And for real Why would we even see that. What's that with this borderline stalker behaviour where we stalk a girl we rejected to see her fuck other guys? The story is about the Main Character, the other characters are extras in his movie, why do we see her after she has no longer any romantic/sexual relevance for the MC?
2)
A Man talks to a Woman at a party.
Man: Would you sleep with me for 100.000$?
Women: no i wouldnt
Man: what if i would pay you 10.000.000$?
Women: then Yes.
Man: good i give you 50$
Women: What?
Man: We established already that you're a whore, now we negotiate the price.
even if she's not waiting to do them she will do them if asked and she will enjoy it or are you telling me that we see her distraught and emotionally damaged because she got pimped out by her boyfriend who claims to love her?
it shows that she has a whore mindset and that's something the majority of harem fans dislike.
For me personally sex is a huge thing (yes, we are on a porn game website, bite me) i can't do ONS i need a connection with the other person and i want the same in game. So, a LI that gives her intimacy away just like that is not a person i would want.
You wouldn't share your secrets with a friend who's know for his inability to keep a secret, at least not if you want it to stay a secret.
If i'm out for a quick fap then i don't play AVNs, then i go an *insert random Pornsite* and watch porn.