BigDaddyDom

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Really like the game so far. Like there is a character that basically looks more like my 50 year old ass. There is even a purple haired gymnast type in my life who had a similar home life(they ended up in jail before we met, rather than me having them whacked). I do not have any daughters though and have not been married in nearly 20 years. Like the humor and many of the musical and pop culture references. Some typos, some continuity errors(like early on when meeting Sarah, saying the MC only knew the youngest daughter for a few months). I know that was probably because of the Patreon version not having the taboo option. I think the wording should always be careful to fit both versions. Also some minor visual issues, many mentioned in 4th wall breaks, I see you Deadpool. Latest one I saw was a bit of clipping in the canoe sex scene.
what character and scene is that from? don't recognize it
 

The Wicked One

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It was pretty bad apparently, you can find his patreon post earlier in this thread.
@XCelesX I posted it a couple of pages back. In a nutshell, it sounds like he had a really bad bout of depression. Nef got out of a bad relationship, his kid went to college and he was all alone for the first time in a while. Then, he didn't shower for like 20 days (no hyperbole that is what he wrote). On the plus side, he said he is feeling better. However, one good day does not make the depression go away, lets be honest.
Not to be a dick, just being a realist, I do recommend tempering your expectations on an update "soon" or within "1 or 2 days". And you should really, really temper expectations of his "12 updates this year plan". Depression this bad tends to hinder progression of anything you love doing. But at the same time, if you have depression like this, you'd understand why he wasn't being as productive. But on the bright-side, I know he is OK, and will be stronger with some actual professional help.
 

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what character and scene is that from? don't recognize it
If you mean the image I attached, it is with the purple hair gymnast character and it is in the canoe, when the rest of the girls take the ski boat back. It is an animated scene and her hand keeps clipping through the side of the canoe.
 
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Nefastus has dropped 23 updates in the 28 months that this game has been on this website. That's an update every 5 weeks for over two years. That probably puts him among the most consistent and dependable devs out there.

If that track record hasn't allowed him to build up enough goodwill among this community for us to give him the benefit of the doubt and show him a little patience and a lot of support, then we're the most pathetically entitled bunch of porn Karens walking the earth.

Everybody take a breath and show some humanity.
 

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All I can say is Nefastus really needs to stop giving us time estimates, not for our sake - example to prevent losing patreons - but for his own sake. Setting a deadline like that, and then being too depressed to work is forcing yourself to do a job you're not interested in. And then when you say 2 days more and it turns into a week, the pressure builds up and you feel more helpless at getting anything done. After all he did say the update was basically complete but he wanted to take another look at it and I assume he hasn't been able to do so because of his mental health.

With so many other developers trying to milk their patrons, I understand Nefastus wants to give us these deadlines. Not to mention how many of us (including me) do like to always ask when the update's gonna come out and adding pressure to him. But surprisingly, I find his community to be the most understanding compared to several other games. We trust him and also care for his health, and that's something Nefastus should know so that he can go back to working on his game in a more comforted manner rather than as a task he feels forced to complete.

Having said all that and not knowing what depression actually feels like, I still would appreciate a little more communication if possible, and while I also hope that we do get the update sometime this month at least, I wish that Nefastus can fully get himself back to normal and continue working peacefully moving forward.
 

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All I can say is Nefastus really needs to stop giving us time estimates, not for our sake - example to prevent losing patreons - but for his own sake. Setting a deadline like that, and then being too depressed to work is forcing yourself to do a job you're not interested in. And then when you say 2 days more and it turns into a week, the pressure builds up and you feel more helpless at getting anything done. After all he did say the update was basically complete but he wanted to take another look at it and I assume he hasn't been able to do so because of his mental health.

With so many other developers trying to milk their patrons, I understand Nefastus wants to give us these deadlines. Not to mention how many of us (including me) do like to always ask when the update's gonna come out and adding pressure to him. But surprisingly, I find his community to be the most understanding compared to several other games. We trust him and also care for his health, and that's something Nefastus should know so that he can go back to working on his game in a more comforted manner rather than as a task he feels forced to complete.

Having said all that and not knowing what depression actually feels like, I still would appreciate a little more communication if possible, and while I also hope that we do get the update sometime this month at least, I wish that Nefastus can fully get himself back to normal and continue working peacefully moving forward.
All we can do at this point is hope the best for Nef.
Unfortunately, you're right. Depression this bad stifles creativity, and saps you of your will to do anything. Although, now part of the Discord, Nef seems to be doing way better. I hope he stays that way.
As a Patron, I am hopeful we'll see the update soon. How soon that ambiguous "soon" is, I am not sure, but I know Nef is pounding away at his keyboard right now trying to deliver that good shit! I'm sure like most creatives, he just want's to make sure it is perfect.
 

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All we can do at this point is hope the best for Nef.
While I agree that we should hope for the best for Nef, I do NOT think that is ALL we can do. Nope, we can also hope for an imaginary scene where the MINIATURE giant Space Hamster and Perverted Voyeur Squirrel discuss their EVIL plans to POISON the MC with Oatmeal Raisin Cookies to STEAL the ladies and conquer the world. :devilish: There is also the FAKE scene where the MC is thinking about EVERYTHING (SEXY) fun that has happened while the camera slowly (472 images) move in for a close-up of his LEFT nostril and doesn't stop until it hits him INSIDE his nose. :)

Now that the silliness is out of the way, yes NEF take care of yourself, Add Chocolate Chip Cookies, and give us a scene where the 'LANDLADY' and MC's 'Childhood Friend', TEACH the 'Friend's young Tenant' about (SEXY) fun. :love: Ok, that even confused ME, so Wife and Sister teach Niece. :)

Just a thought.
 

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While I agree that we should hope for the best for Nef, I do NOT think that is ALL we can do. Nope, we can also hope for an imaginary scene where the MINIATURE giant Space Hamster and Perverted Voyeur Squirrel discuss their EVIL plans to POISON the MC with Oatmeal Raisin Cookies to STEAL the ladies and conquer the world. :devilish: There is also the FAKE scene where the MC is thinking about EVERYTHING (SEXY) fun that has happened while the camera slowly (472 images) move in for a close-up of his LEFT nostril and doesn't stop until it hits him INSIDE his nose. :)

Now that the silliness is out of the way, yes NEF take care of yourself, Add Chocolate Chip Cookies, and give us a scene where the 'LANDLADY' and MC's 'Childhood Friend', TEACH the 'Friend's young Tenant' about (SEXY) fun. :love: Ok, that even confused ME, so Wife and Sister teach Niece. :)

Just a thought.
Your imagination is dark and gross... I love it. Do you wanna be best-friends?
 

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Greetings all, -------------scroll down for the compressed versions

Personally I play with all the characters in this game, open your minds and give it a shot, there are some great story lines to be explored and all the writing and dialog is pretty damn good. But to be fair and honest, I don't 'share' my wife with other men, but I play the wife Love route, and she sure shares me if I play my cards correctly. And I LOVE the fabulous MOD Midlife Crisis - Courteous Mod + Walkthrough by thanks for the demos .

To the update complainers/whiners as Korben Dallas said so succinctly below, this is now 24 updates in 28 months, you people need to calm down.
Nefastus has dropped 23 updates in the 28 months that this game has been on this website. That's an update every 5 weeks for over two years. That probably puts him among the most consistent and dependable devs out there.

If that track record hasn't allowed him to build up enough goodwill among this community for us to give him the benefit of the doubt and show him a little patience and a lot of support, then we're the most pathetically entitled bunch of porn Karens walking the earth.

Everybody take a breath and show some humanity.
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monroe if you could add to the OP that would be appreciated.
honeybadger6969 Thank you for sharing this with us.
thanks for the demos Thank you for the fabulous MOD Midlife Crisis - Courteous Mod + Walkthrough v24 I highly recommend this mod and taking the wife love route, This mod has its own incest patch.

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is there actually a loli in this game or is the tag for the younger daughter who definitely isn't a loli?
 
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