Just checked, nothing of importance on Discord, just general chit-chat. He is online via Discord as I type this, but no update-update.
Patience is your greatest ally, right now. Nef claims "slow upload speeds" in whatever rural part of the U.S. he lives in. And, in the past, that upload has taken a looooooooooong time (scroll back a few years in this thread and see what I mean). Also, when Midlife Crisis does drop, it is usually in the 20 dollar tier on Patreon. Though I've splurged that 20 dollars before and shared it here, I am currently in his 5 dollar tier. So there is no guarantee that even when it is released, it will pop up here on F95. So, your best bet is to just relax, and wait for the inevitable.