Women often grow to resent and dislike weak men. It's not about whether they are nice or not, but are they strong. Despite all the conditioning by feminists, most women deap down want a man to be strong and lead. It's why there are countless stories about seemingly good guys who don't abuse their wives, have decent jobs and pay the bills who still get cheated on, because the wife wanted the thrill of a relationship with a guy who gives them the tingles. It's why so many husbands get blindsided and didn't see it coming because they thought they were doing the right thing and were nice to their wives. And with Hollywood stoking the fires with shows like Sex in the City, you're much more screwed than a guy a century ago where at least their was extreme pressure from society against loose morals and sex outside marriage. Marriage is pretty much screwed these days. BTW, I'm one of those guys who got blindsided ten years ago. My revenge was to go back to school, double my income, lose 50 pounds and become more interesting by travelling, learning another language and developing a new attitude. She went bankrupt and pretty much hit the wall years ago, and I have a gf 16 years younger
When I was going through it and was getting my heart ripped out she was completely icy and unsympathetic. I've totally experienced what Bob is going through. Once they make up their mind they are done with you, you're toast. And she actually wanted me to agree to being a cuck, I guess because I was still paying bills. I started the divorce immediately. As you may have guessed, I'm not an NTR fan
