Wow, sick brains run wild...the girls in the shelter are off limits for everyone. Our job is to help them getting back on their feet and (re)educating them how to manage their own lifes (again). We support them during grief, depressions, anxiety disorders, traumata, abuse, nasty divorces, custody battles, withdrawls, flat hunt, etc. to make sure they dont end homeless on the streets, overdosed/battered in hospitals, in jail or adding another suicide/murderee in the graveyard statistics when they leave.
Sure, some girls with a crush confronting their crush about it only happens in movies and talkshows...and games ^^
Your backward logic dont works for a game in development. The new event sets the variables right, editing all the past events would take time and force all of us to start a new game, not only the monogamous folks. Most players hate that and complain over and over. This dev handled it differently by adding an event to decide/correct the variables now and save us from restarting and yet you are still complaining over and over...