This is purely a suggestion, try restructuring your patreon tiers, i mean in all seriousness, to get the game as a patron within any sort of reasonable time you have to pay top tier ($50-100), and with covid, and a lot of people out of work etc, and don't have a lot of money, you would find you would probably get a lot more patrons if the prices were lower and the wait times per tier shorter. I was originally a patron on $10 tier, which still had a 3 week wait time to get the game, whereas most games i sub to, you can get it a lot sooner (and in some cases at the same time as second tier subs), this of course is your decision.
People want to play your game(s), but i'm sure the wait times and the cost are putting people off, so they'd rather get it for free when it's public, or when it gets leaked, which TBH is probably going to happen no matter what you do, and being aggressive to people here on this site which has a LOT of people who visit regularly, will likely see the way you interract with people here and be less inclined to subscribe to your games.
I have nothing against you, but you need to see it from the side of the visitors to this site. Have a good day