A portion of the Rance fandom is a good example of this. Despite the fact that Rance is a rapist, sleeps with a bagillion women, and is just an all-round digusting human being, the moment one of the girls (who is not even one of the main girls) sleeps with some old man for COMPLETELY understandable reasons, these people cry bloody hell.
And yes, even the fattest and ugliest of them will still identify with a normal or good-looking character. This is why despite that fact that a large part of the human population are ugly pathetic cowards, the main characters in stories is pretty much never this, cuz not even ugly pahetnic cowards want to identify with ugly pathetic cowards.
You are a hypocrite as well. The main point of netorare fetish is the sense of jealousy and all associated emotions that make a sexual situation more exciting. If you didn't identify yourself with ntr-ed protag you wouldn't feel anything, there would be no difference between ntr or any other porn, and you wouldn't name yourself MrNTR, lol. Rance games have romance aspect, so even if the MC himself doesn't care about girls being fucked by other dudes, it isn't the case for fans. Both those who love netorare and those who hate it identify with the character all the same, it's just their reaction to the sense of jealousy is different - some embrace it and use it to fuel their sexual excitement, others are hurt by it and feel anger, instead. As long as your empathy is turned on, you'll place yourself in the protagonist's shoes. When it comes to female protag, you identify yourself with those who fuck her, instead.
Only a CENSORED "identifies" with a porn character.
It is the most pathetic thing to do and if people bit the dust because of doing so, I would be very happy.
Human beings do not identify.
Human beings never pretend to be one actor in a porn scene.
Why?
Because obvious.
Human beings are the director, behind every scene and every actor, no matter how s/he looks.
Lol, if it was the case no one would enjoy fiction. The main reason why people play games, watch movies, read books, etc, is our ability to place ourselves in another person's shoes, identify with them and/or feel empathy towards them. YOU personally identify with porn characters, it doesn't matter if you acknowledge this FACT or not. When you watch a porn scene with a girl you place yourself in the place of the guy who fucks her, otherwise, it would be no different than just peeping on someone having sex, not something most people would like. If you don't identify with the guy who's having sex then you're basically being cucked each time you watch a sex scene, lol. . .