What I typed is similiar, but from a different point of view. You make sound like people asking whether NTR is avoidable is what normally derails forums. Its not. What derails forums is people feeling butt hurt over people asking if its avoidable, which is weird, There are people who get butt hurt over ntr not being avoidable or in the game the period (also weird), but normally is the former. (from what I have seen) My point was to be precise enough that people understand that they may be entitle to their own kinks, but not entitled to be given those kinks in every game they want to play. Nor are they entitled to not see the kinks that disgust them in any game. Most of the time what I see derail forums is people being but hurt over people asking if its avoidable. I have seen people just attack people over them asking if its avoidable. What most people never realize about NTR is not not specific, but generic. Even though there is a prevalent NTR , "netorare, " Where the main protagonist (normally male) is cheated on by his girl cheating on purpose or being raped into submission. Even though it can be a female protagonist being cheated on its not something i have never seen. So I see that as a legend. Netori is another kind of NTR, but this one is the black sheep. Its female protagonist cheating . There's also the Netori on sterioids where female protagonist cheats with multiple males, also known as "corruption." Oddly enough a male protagonist cheating just called cheating and is not considered NTR. With a definiton like that i can understand how some people cant agree about NTR. Cause logically is nonsensical. lol