That's fair, i'm kind of the opposite myself, and yeah LT is pretty notorious for it's updates, mind you so is No Haven lol.
Yeah FoC definitely had potential, it's a shame it never got finished.
Not a huge fan of TiTS, i think it's the sci-fi aspect, idk, CoC and CoC2 are pretty aight though
Strive for Power/Conquest is sort of similar with a more RPG/Story twist to it, though the "quests" are pretty basic and it lacks the difficulty and strategic aspects i want in these games.
Idk if you've played Portals of Phereon but it has some similar elements, though they do literally glaze over the fact you are kidnapping and enslaving/buying and selling people/sacrificing people to alchemically create humunculi in favour of keeping a lighter tone, which i've always felt was bizarre.