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To answer your question - I myself would want the choice to either go the pegging route or go more vanilla. I'm not interested in pegging, but I'm sure some folks are. So I usually go the route of compromise. I'm also not a BDSM "expert" so of course "compromise" could probably mean a lot of things.When you put it that way, it's easier for me to agree with this point of view. I'm just a bit skeptical that there are many players that would benefit from the extra work. How many players are there that would like to have a had a buttjob in that scene instead of a wearing a dildo, but would like to be pegged in the next lewd scene with Deb? Porthas, you also suggested an alternative scene for Deb this chapter. Hypothetically, if the next kink scene with her was pegging until the MC has a prostate orgasm, would you be okay with that, or would you also require another less kinky scene instead there?
I like discussing game design and read people's opinions, I don't think it's wasted time. Besides, this usually only lasts 1 week after release. After that, the thread goes quiet and I go back to my porn cave working in the game all alone for 3 months. Let me enjoy talking about it while there are still people commenting![]()
I approach relationships and sex scenes tied to those relationships as gradual things.* As you gradually get to know somebody, you gradually experiment with more in both the relationship and in the bed. Like dating. At first you put up your best showing, then those barriers drop and more of what each party brings to the table is revealed. Maybe this approach doesn't work for the design of the game, that's fine. Or it may be too much work. That's also fine.
I'm not going to pretend to know what it's like to develop a game, so I won't go there. If it were me, I would try to build like, clear stages where one can climb, level off, or drop down. Climb up to the next kinkiest thing, level off towards... hmm maybe in bullet point this would be clearer:
1) hop up - I'm not only cool with licking your feet I'll also strap a plastic dildo on myself
2) stay level - eh, I'm good with licking your feet but I don't want to strap on the dildo
3) hop down - eh, I tried the licking feet and I didn't like it. Maybe go more vanilla?
With each stage that's not a "hop up" in the direction the girl wants to go there's the option for her to
1) be okay with it
2) be okay with it but it hurts relationship/alternatives suggested that are "equal" perhaps but "different flavor"?
3) not be okay with it and end intimate relationship go to friend zone
(same kind of choices where applicable for MC)
Of course these are all generalities and broad examples, I'm not speaking in specifics.
This is also kinda how I thought the story with each woman was going to go, so it's why I brought up what I did earlier.
* caveat - of course building relationships doesn't mean a good story can only have sex scenes if you've built up to them - spontaneous sex scenes always have their place in a story, in my humble opinion.
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