look man, almost nobody is gonna look at this kinda stuff rationally in any capacity. anyone reasonable gets drowned out by hoards of those who want to stop dissenting opinions out with prejudice, it's why some NTR games have the uploader either become hostile or act primitively hostile to people who will often flock to the the game because it looks good and complain about the NTR... or just come complain- My 2 cents in the anti vs pro ntr is that both side are annoying or atleast have some vocal people. I see as many "Ntr is shit" in Ntr games forum as "NTR! NTR! NTR!" in vanilla games.
^Almost all ntr forum I see is always the same joke of "Is ntr avoidable?" and I am starting to get annoyed
^In one ci-en post, where a ntr dev was making a post about their first vanilla game, 90% of the comments (by the japanese) were mostly: "give us ntr", "ntr ntr ntr" etc.
- NTR and vanilla are also one of the few genre that impacts the viewer emotionally. These emotions might make people more aggressive in their pro/anti stances. Also, seeing aggressive or repetitive comments from the other group will piss people off, thus creating the vocal endless hate between the two parties.
- Another point as to why ntr is the most controversial, despite there being many "extreme" fetishes are because Vanilla and ntr are the most common and most popular.
^ I am sure if we go through a bunch of games, we have less of a hard time categorizing them in the vanilla and ntr category.
^ If you check Dlsite, under the situational fetishes, Vanilla/Lovey-Dovey is first and had 29k games under it, followed by cuckoldry(netorare) in 3rd place, having 14k games, cuckoldry(netori) in 7th place and cheating is >10th(lazy to check) out of 56.
Also I don't blame netori fans accidentally stumbling into a netorare forum as almost all japanese games put NTR in their title regardless if its netorare or netori and I personally think that they view netori, netorare and netorase as the same thing. Sometimes, the games don't contain ntr at all or are in the grey areas like "I steal a girl from a lesbo and fuck her, but I also fuck the lesbo as well". But at this point, if you are looking for netori, just search the cheating tag and not find games that has a ntr tag in it.
honestly i dont care about NTR (that much) but i had the unfortunate experience of that one thing you read that forever scars your impression of a genre.
also, if people are so willing to shit on non-NTR fans with jokes like " NTR avoidable by deleting the game" you could just say if there's a vanilla route regardless of how not sexy it is. i played the Kegani lab games and once i got the chad " you win" ending simply watching the girl's have sex was perfectly fine cus that's really what want from NTR, to cut the cuck out of the story because unlike vanilla NTR has to shoehorn in the guy breaking up the sex scenes to show you how sad he is. the NTR that never shows the cucks face is the best for me because of this
... was kinda sidetracked in the last part