- My 2 cents in the anti vs pro ntr is that both side are annoying or atleast have some vocal people. I see as many "Ntr is shit" in Ntr games forum as "NTR! NTR! NTR!" in vanilla games.
^Almost all ntr forum I see is always the same joke of "Is ntr avoidable?" and I am starting to get annoyed
^In one ci-en post, where a ntr dev was making a post about their first vanilla game, 90% of the comments (by the japanese) were mostly: "give us ntr", "ntr ntr ntr" etc.
- NTR and vanilla are also one of the few genre that impacts the viewer emotionally. These emotions might make people more aggressive in their pro/anti stances. Also, seeing aggressive or repetitive comments from the other group will piss people off, thus creating the vocal endless hate between the two parties.
- Another point as to why ntr is the most controversial, despite there being many "extreme" fetishes are because Vanilla and ntr are the most common and most popular.
^ I am sure if we go through a bunch of games, we have less of a hard time categorizing them in the vanilla and ntr category.
^ If you check Dlsite, under the situational fetishes, Vanilla/Lovey-Dovey is first and had 29k games under it, followed by cuckoldry(netorare) in 3rd place, having 14k games, cuckoldry(netori) in 7th place and cheating is >10th(lazy to check) out of 56.
Also I don't blame netori fans accidentally stumbling into a netorare forum as almost all japanese games put NTR in their title regardless if its netorare or netori and I personally think that they view netori, netorare and netorase as the same thing. Sometimes, the games don't contain ntr at all or are in the grey areas like "I steal a girl from a lesbo and fuck her, but I also fuck the lesbo as well". But at this point, if you are looking for netori, just search the cheating tag and not find games that has a ntr tag in it.