I was thinking the exact same thing reading this entire conversation. You can be a great person while simultaneously enjoying getting railed by a bunch of people. The two are not mutually exclusive.Usually the reaction of other people when approaching them revolves around the extremes: either they are perceived as human filth, or misguided little angels to be saved.
You're wrong, there is a couple scenes where the MC is being dominated (with Kathleen and Veronica), but it's always a choice between dominating or being dominated.No. There are some femdom scenes among women, but there are none with the MC.
Pardon me and please do not get it the wrong way, but what do you think the average Porn actor or prostitute does? What you describe here is niche of niche stuff, except maybe rimming, which is a bit(!) more common.
No wonder your view is like that, when you are averaging things only a tiny fraction of these two groups does, on all.
Nobody denies that are quite a number of porn actors and prostitutes which are not "relationship material", but that has less to do with their jobs, but more with other things, like general mindset ouside work for example.
Like in all groups, you will some absolutely rotten apples and you´ll also find really great apples in there.
If you don't mind, can you tell me when that is in the story? I will redo the game once more with walkthrough this time so I won't miss it.You're wrong, there is a couple scenes where the MC is being dominated (with Kathleen and Veronica), but it's always a choice between dominating or being dominated.
Question: what would a girl like Felicia, Mina, Rosalind, or Dalia have to do, for you to disqualify her from being in a relationship with you?
You can also just check out the gallery with a gallery unlocker included in one of the mods on the original post.If you don't mind, can you tell me when that is in the story? I will redo the game once more with walkthrough this time so I won't miss it.
Dalia is out because...well...of her job.Question: what would a girl like Felicia, Mina, Rosalind, or Dalia have to do, for you to disqualify her from being in a relationship with you?
Nobody denies that are quite a number of porn actors and prostitutes which are not "relationship material", but that has less to do with their jobs, but more with other things, like general mindset ouside work for example.
Like in all groups, you will some absolutely rotten apples and you´ll also find really great apples in there.
I tend to break from otherwise fairly modern/sexually welcoming views on this and agree with JasonsGranpa here.This is exactly where our views differ. Not only do I think its their rotten apple mindset that leads them to choose to become a prostitute/pornactress. I'm also convinced that doing precisely those things will make them absolutely unfit for a relationship.
Hi Pr0GamerJohnny !I tend to break from otherwise fairly modern/sexually welcoming views on this and agree with JasonsGranpa here.
On prostitution/porn in general, disregarding the rest of their lives and the emotional side, the simple choice of career to fuck for money means they hold an implicit expectation of any potential romantic partners being okay with this. What a horribly arrogant notion! This extends to male actors too. (obviously those that are just trying to get money in a quick fix don't apply, I'm talking about those making a career)
So for starters, yes, the idea that a potential partner would require you to accept they fuck other people during the relationship as a condition for even being with them is rotten relationship material to the core. I'm not opposed in anyway to swinging/adventurous couples that go out on weekend orgies. This is not that - this is begining the relationship from a framework of asymetry (unless they're both in the business, that's a whole different dynamic Im not touching)
Furthermore, fundamentally, who does porn attract? No, not nymphos. No, not "sluts".
It attracts women with poor impulse control, and I don't mean sexual. It attracts those who would prefer to have the time of their lives on the weekend spending 100s or 1000s of dollars on fun, then needing to earn that back during the week with a minimal skillset. A different option would be the crappy retail/labor job (like so many americans) - which wouldn't earn enough for the hedonist vacations. That's not objectively "worse", it just means their lives are sine waves with much larger peak amplitudes- and that does not bode well for relationship stability; between lovers, between friends, between family, anything.
Thats an opinion I can relate to much more. When you speak of Rosalind, do you mean with or without her current carnation activities?Dalia is out because...well...of her job.
Felicia is one of those women that will just cheat on you at some point, I feel. She is nice and seems to have a good heart, but I doubt she can be faithful to anybody for long.
Rosalind could probably be a great wife if you treat her and her kid (or maybe kids) at least decent.
Mina also could be a golden ticket. She can be a bit fake at times, so that could end up being a problem but so far in the game...well...Ian was just a huge idiot for pushing her away.
Interesting point. A lot of 'live fast die young' type girls.I tend to break from otherwise fairly modern/sexually welcoming views on this and agree with JasonsGranpa here.
On prostitution/porn in general, disregarding the rest of their lives and the emotional side, the simple choice of career to fuck for money means they hold an implicit expectation of any potential romantic partners being okay with this. What a horribly arrogant notion! This extends to male actors too. (obviously those that are just trying to get money in a quick fix don't apply, I'm talking about those making a career)
So for starters, yes, the idea that a potential partner would require you to accept they fuck other people during the relationship as a condition for even being with them is rotten relationship material to the core. I'm not opposed in anyway to swinging/adventurous couples that go out on weekend orgies. This is not that - this is begining the relationship from a framework of asymetry (unless they're both in the business, that's a whole different dynamic Im not touching)
Furthermore, fundamentally, who does porn attract? No, not nymphos. No, not "sluts".
It attracts women with poor impulse control, and I don't mean sexual. It attracts those who would prefer to have the time of their lives on the weekend spending 100s or 1000s of dollars on fun, then needing to earn that back during the week with a minimal skillset. A different option would be the crappy retail/labor job (like so many americans) - which wouldn't earn enough for the hedonist vacations. That's not objectively "worse", it just means their lives are sine waves with much larger peak amplitudes- and that does not bode well for relationship stability; between lovers, between friends, between family, anything.
Thanks!You can also just check out the gallery with a gallery unlocker included in one of the mods on the original post.
Either or I would say. At least so far we only know that she is very desperate and fears for the well-being of her child, so she does what she thinks she has to. I also think she is a lot more of a deviant than she seems to let on, but we will see if I'm right with that further down the line, I guess.Thats an opinion I can relate to much more. When you speak of Rosalind, do you mean with or without her current carnation activities?
Because the Rose we see in regards to her former husband is closest to what I would look for in a wife out of all the women presented in the game.
That is quite easy to answer. I am a rather laidback person and there is not much which can really alienate me, but there are some principles I do not move an inch.Question: what would a girl like Felicia, Mina, Rosalind, or Dalia have to do, for you to disqualify her from being in a relationship with you?
Thanks for answering!That is quite easy to answer. I am a rather laidback person and there is not much which can really alienate me, but there are some principles I do not move an inch.
I do not abide
- Chronical lying, which to a certain point include so called "white lies". I am honest and straight when it comes to questions, I expect my partner to be so as well. We can talk about anything and solve it, no lying required at all. Certainly there are some small, little secrets every person has and some things you say due to politeness, that is not the point. But for the big questions impacting a relationship honesty is king, even if the questions are "delicate".
- Disrespect from either side. Since we talk here about porn shots and prostitution, let us stay with this. I would expect the partner involved in it to be stopping this "work" due to respect for the developing relationship and love interest. If both partners discuss it and come to the common made solution that he or she can continue or start to do it at a later date in the relationship, that is another thing. The pair discussed and decided in a partnership(!) how it goes onward, as it should be. If it means a stop of the sexual work or a continuation that is the pairs question to answer together.
- Backhandedness and obfuscation, unsurprisingly related to the points above. To put in pointedly, her being a brazen slut is not the issue if you know BEFORE fully commiting! You know what the situation is and you can decide if it is a dealbraker for you or not. Learning afterwards piecemeal is a no go.
Same with cheating. It should not happen, but we all are human. An unplanned one-nightstand or a "weekend/holiday of craziness" due to some predatorous player should never happen and would hurt like hell, but I could forgive it if she comes clean on her own and it was a onetime thing. Even a late confession on her own would not be "ok", but acceptable, you know what I mean.
A complete no go would be a hidden ongoing affair or a forced by circumstances confession.
So for me in PC Rosalind and Mina are already out, Felicia depends on how she develops further and Dalia we do not know enough about to say so. While I understand Rosi´s reasoning and her crappy situation, she tries too much manipulation in the background for me to consider her relationship material.
Mina struck out with her "bucket list". Not only is the list hidden for the most part, but the explicitely "wanting to cheat" part! Mina is not wanting a hall pass or so, but explicitely wanting to cheat. A hall pass or swinging is something you can talk about and decide to do it or not, that is ok in my book, a pair deciding how "adventurous" they want to be.
But planned cheating as Mina wants to do, nope, as I wrote above that breaks it for me.
Felicia is still realtionship material, even more so as the game goes on. When we play her path, it becomes clear Feli would not even be at the club, if Elias was not such a complete idiot who cheats on her and disrespects Feli massively. Had Elias helped Felicia save her hometown school, which he could have handled easily and even made great PR with it, we would never have met Felicia at all or only as a friend of Mina.
Have ugly tats like Harper.Question: what would a girl like Felicia, Mina, Rosalind, or Dalia have to do, for you to disqualify her from being in a relationship with you?