I totally understand what's happening. Like yourself, I am not a coder so I can't comment on how hard or easy it would be to re implement her, as you say, sexy stuff. The person I was quoting, I was trying to understand why he/she seems to thinks the dev wouldn't add those scenes back if he or someone could. Release it on patreon under it's "fixed" condition. Have a patch on sites like this to truly fix it.
I don't know, this whole patreon mess is bullshit. I really wish these were convos on what we are most excited to or hopeful to in the next release.