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It's unusual, sure, but not unheard-of. When it does happen, usually it's early in the relationship and the aggressor is crossing a boundary they didn't realize their partner had, often because of past trauma. Point is, if you're in a jurisdiction where the standard is "you mean your girlfriend will charge you for rape?
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", any sex you initiate without it is a fool's gamble - you'd better be damned certain the person you're doing it to won't consider it rape, because if they do, the law is on their side. (Of particular relevance from that link: "Consent to any sexual act or prior consensual sexual activity between or with any party does not necessarily constitute consent to any other sexual act.")