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ask Lucia what's wrong / bothering her.anyone know how to get to the pool party non NTR
What chapter is that and when? i skimmed through the game and no part shows the old party just the day time one Im looking for the night time one without ntrask Lucia what's wrong / bothering her.
i no longer have that i had a feeling it was a separate gameYou didn't download the What If? one-shot, did you?
Okay, I'm a bit lost. Every NTR ending has a choice. If you pick the wrong one, you get the NTR ending, but you're brought back to the choice afterwards. So, just pick the other choice?anyone know how to get to the pool party non NTR
I was mainly talking about relation Ophelia and Sterling and maybe even other adult family members and that especially from Sterling's side it plays no role at all in game, while it is one of the things that formed him most. Also even if they did miss something more damaging was going on as is quite possible with emotional abuse unfortunately, physical is way easier to detect, well when he ran away for 4 years that should have at least brought some doubts to them of what they had seen. None of them seem to have had his back though, during that time somewhat understandable since whole family is pretty dysfunctional with all respect.Catherin was also affected, since (I believe) that's when she started with tucking in Brenna, to make sure she wouldn't run away either. As for Brenna, she didn't understand the situation, so when the choice comes between two reliable people, you'll put the blame with the absent one since they did something "out of character". In her mind, Sterling was the bad one, since he abandonned them.
Where can i find this? In this thread i see only Windows and LinuxIt is also for android
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HAHAHAHAHA! Like teenagers are not self-absorb to be that socially observant.Does not take away that Brenna, being even older as Sterling could have started seeing after puberty
This is all differences in opinion but 2 things can be true and from personal experience one of the worst things you can do is just say let go of past trauma. Trauma hidden is not trauma being let go it is masking it and we're seeing it in the story currently with Ophelia flipping the script on Sterling right now. The only way to move past trauma is to confront it or you'll breakdown or have an outburst and no one knows when but it will happen.HAHAHAHAHA! Like teenagers are not self-absorb to be that socially observant.
I'm sorry, I'm thinking you're grasping at straws to a) vilify Ophelia for some reason and b) make Sterling a pity case. Look, whatever happened, first of all, it's fiction, second of all, it's in the past. Did his father make mistakes? Yes, but he was scared because of what happened to his sister and mother. He loved his wife and kids, but he knew with Sterling, he could potentially raise a fox amongst the hens, ready to take everything away from him the moment he let his guard down. I'm not saying what he did was right, but he didn't do it just because he was a terrible person, but because he was scared of Hunter's influence. And Ophelia was a casualty of war. Yes, she didn't do more to support Sterling, but all she knew was that Sterling was given tough love. She never realised how far her husband went.
You're looking for someone to blame, but you're focussing on the victims in this. The only person to blame is Hunter. He's the one who has no excuse, but rather revels in destroying lifes. The best thing Sterling can do is let go off the past and make sure Hunter can't destroy any more lifes. After all, he was able to at least understand his father's motivations, so why destroy the relationship with his mother?
Well Gripping said it as well as I could and yeah I might have made the mistake of using Brenna at end since the remark I replied to was more about her, while my point is exactly that the situation is completely not dealt with from Sterlings pov.HAHAHAHAHA! Like teenagers are not self-absorb to be that socially observant.
I'm sorry, I'm thinking you're grasping at straws to a) vilify Ophelia for some reason and b) make Sterling a pity case. Look, whatever happened, first of all, it's fiction, second of all, it's in the past. Did his father make mistakes? Yes, but he was scared because of what happened to his sister and mother. He loved his wife and kids, but he knew with Sterling, he could potentially raise a fox amongst the hens, ready to take everything away from him the moment he let his guard down. I'm not saying what he did was right, but he didn't do it just because he was a terrible person, but because he was scared of Hunter's influence. And Ophelia was a casualty of war. Yes, she didn't do more to support Sterling, but all she knew was that Sterling was given tough love. She never realised how far her husband went.
You're looking for someone to blame, but you're focussing on the victims in this. The only person to blame is Hunter. He's the one who has no excuse, but rather revels in destroying lifes. The best thing Sterling can do is let go off the past and make sure Hunter can't destroy any more lifes. After all, he was able to at least understand his father's motivations, so why destroy the relationship with his mother?
Where'd you see that Ophelia was supportive of how Sterling was treated?The thing is, yes Sterling was a victim and he was such at an age where he had no possibility to defend himself and those kind of long trauma's have impact, both as (complex) PTSD and also ingrained habits and defences you built like refusing to truly commit or trust anyone being betrayed by those people you love most as a child and should be able to trust to have your best intrest at heart and love you. Would you have defended Ophelia as much if the Dad had physically abused him and thrown him of stairs and broken his bones? What he did was every bit as bad and she both condoned it and even supported him out of love in his actions and Sterling saw that and had to live through it, getting at best mixed messages about her love for him and his importance to her. In the end it was the dev that brought it in the game by choosing backstory for Sterling and why he had been away for 4 years.
i think what he's reffering to is that Ophelia was a passive observer to his abuse, like you wrote that she "tried to tell him to stop" but she never put her foot down, never said "stop or i'm leaving you" and ment it, she was always for better or worse deciding to let her husband abuse stering by never REALLY standing up to him about it and in doing so was passively letting it happen. sort of like if you see a girl being raped and just watch your the same as the rapist or worse. But i do hope that in the next chapter serling breaks down and screems at ophelia something like "how are you any better than him?!, your still the same taking his side, instead of just loving me your trying to control me!, the same as him, how can you clame to love me when you always choose his dick over your sons life and wellbeing, your not a mother, your a monster"...maybe as a way to flip the "control" back into his hands, as an option for those who don't like dommie mommies lolWhere'd you see that Ophelia was supportive of how Sterling was treated?
I think you guys have filled in enough gaps to start a new game.i think what he's reffering to is that Ophelia was a passive observer to his abuse, like you wrote that she "tried to tell him to stop" but she never put her foot down, never said "stop or i'm leaving you" and ment it, she was always for better or worse deciding to let her husband abuse stering by never REALLY standing up to him about it and in doing so was passively letting it happen. sort of like if you see a girl being raped and just watch your the same as the rapist or worse.
Lmao probably, if I had any drive for doing the mind numbing coding or stuff i'd love to make one, but i'm only really good at coming up with vague plot lines and dialogue lol, in the time it took for someone to respond to me i rewrote that outburst snipit like 4 times in my head and expanded it lolI think you guys have filled in enough gaps to start a new game.
Ophelia's inactions doesn't mean she helped him. That other guy clearly said she supported him. much different from maybe she didn't do enough to stop him.i think what he's reffering to is that Ophelia was a passive observer to his abuse, like you wrote that she "tried to tell him to stop" but she never put her foot down, never said "stop or i'm leaving you" and ment it, she was always for better or worse deciding to let her husband abuse stering by never REALLY standing up to him about it and in doing so was passively letting it happen. sort of like if you see a girl being raped and just watch your the same as the rapist or worse. But i do hope that in the next chapter serling breaks down and screems at ophelia something like "how are you any better than him?!, your still the same taking his side, instead of just loving me your trying to control me!, the same as him, how can you clame to love me when you always choose his dick over your sons life and wellbeing, your not a mother, your a monster"...maybe as a way to flip the "control" back into his hands, as an option for those who don't like dommie mommies lol
True, i was just pointing out that "maybe" he was trying to make a different point with the wrong words, you know? like when you try to tell your SO they look good "today", when you very much ment to say "you always look good but today...DAMN hun" in that context lol he could be making a different point but i felt like..."yeah she was a terrible mother, and isn't much better now than she was then, still caring more about how she feels over than her sons happienes that she LET get stolen by her own ineptitude" you know? so i felt if that was his point maybe i should try to explain it? even if i'm wrong the point still stands on its own i think, but thats just a theory....Ophelia's inactions doesn't mean she helped him. That other guy clearly said she supported him. much different from maybe she didn't do enough to stop him.
Just as an extra aside, her inactions could have felt like a form of support to sterling, speaking from 1st hand exp for a moment, but when your being abused by an authority figure and another see's it and instead of stopping it decides to only do the bare minimum to feel like they "tried", to the abused that very much feels like your supporting them, by not doing anything because you don't want to mess with the status que or cause any fallout in their own life you inadvertantly make the abused see you as excepting or yes even supporting the abuser and the abuse they put on you. that's not what he said but it is the reality of how he might have ment it, at least thats what i think, i could be wrongOphelia's inactions doesn't mean she helped him. That other guy clearly said she supported him. much different from maybe she didn't do enough to stop him.
Reread those night talks they have at start and yes in the end not acting and staying with the dad , not stopping him and keeping the status quo since she loved him is supporting the dad in that whatever her reasons, especially from the pov of the abused she chose the dad over him emotionally speaking and that not once or twice, but years and years continually.Where'd you see that Ophelia was supportive of how Sterling was treated?