I'll agree NTR shouldn't be the bulk of the content based on the disclaimer, sure. Just because someone likes NTR doesn't mean they don't like harem or vanilla just as much or more. You're generalizing way too much because of how you feel about the fetish. The "NTR crowd" isn't some monolithic hivemind, despite what you've read. Try to remember the game started as much of an NTR game as a harem game and had NTR scenes however basic in 0.1. You said yourself there's still no sex for Sterling with the overwhelming majority of the cast. But there's NTR. It's not an accident.
I can appreciate you don't like NTR, but there isn't any reason why there can't be one less vanilla scene and one more NTR scene if there has to be some compromise somewhere. If the dev wants to do it that is, your opinion on the game is irrelevant.
False equivalence - this is a fucking porn game, not Mario. If you've spent any amount of time on F95 or any other site for porn games, eastern or western, game-over sex is rampant. It's a staple for lots of japanese RPGMaker games, for example. You can call it bad design, but this isn't a platformer, it's a Ren'Py game where you read and make choices. If Miyamoto extended drowning scenes and gave you a second window to view Bowser dicking Peach full-nelson style, you bet your ass I'd ask for longer drowning scenes. You're grasping at this point.
Okay, why not one less of the multiple scenes that you like for one full NTR sex scene? Just one. Give me a lil foreplay, fucking and a creampie/cumshot. That's it. One per update. You still get many times that many scenes on the stuff that you like.
If everyone can get what they want, why do you insist on being selfish and excluding other people? Again, it's up to the dev what happens, but there's certainly no high-ground here just because you don't like NTR. I'm not complaining about the dev's work, I just think if people could get over themselves they wouldn't be annoying devs into dropping fetishes that were already in their games. I really liked the scene with Brenna and Hunter in the shed in 0.4, I just wished it lasted longer like Eva's NTR scene in 0.2. I accept that there's a fair amount of working adding some more animations there, but I think more people would enjoy extended game over sequences. There is more than enough of the stuff you want, so why complain?
The "game over" mechanism is a big part of what makes Power Vacuum unique. It's funny and allows people to access NTR and what-if scenarios. It's nothing like Mario because the design of the game is totally different. We don't need to watch Mario turn into a lifeless blue husk because nobody gets anything out of it, they want to get back to playing the game. Ren'Py porn games are all about the writing, renders, animations and story. Lots of people enjoy this game because they enjoy watching Hunter win, and there's different reasons for different people. Stop trying to make it sound like the game over sequences don't matter, because they absolutely do and have always been there.