Fetishes are mines fields here so i won't start talking about them. But as for the ice cubes...You wanna gather up a bucket or two and join me for an ice-cold bathe?
No thank you. I have a weak heart, a sensitive skin and excitable nerve endings.
Do tell.
If i get caught holding another man's wife's hand does it count as cheating?
And does it matter if the fingers are laced or not?
It's complicated.
If the husband catches you holding hands and considers the action as an act of cheating, then it becomes and act of cheating in his mind.
If someone else catches you holding hands, but don't know the extent of your relationship with each other, then it's not cheating as far as they're concerned. It is if they do know and consider it as such.
If you think it is cheating to hold hands with another man's wife, yet do as such anyway, then it is cheating as per your intent. The same for the wife applies.
If you both don't consider hand holding as cheating, then it is not. But if the world considers it as cheating, then it is, regardless of your own beliefs.
If the husband thinks you're cheating by holding hand with his wife, but the world does not both as opinion and word of law, then the husband is deemed insane.
However, if you hold hands with either either or both the husband and the wife, fingers laced or not, and you are younger than both and seemingly look like them, then you are considered their child and thus hand holding is deemed as a normal and natural occurence of the familial kind.
Of course there are other hypothetical situations that require a deft hand at programming, but generally speaking... it is indeed a very complex affair.
