- Dec 17, 2017
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I guess you missed what I wrote:Surely no one is THAT fragile.
So...don't trigger shame.Different people get triggered by different things. I recently found out one of mine - a certain signature image hit me HARD. I got queasy and had to skip over that person's posts, and was thinking of ignoring that person, until someone pointed out to my dumb ass that I could set my adblocker (uBlock Origin) to filter that image. Bam, problem solved.
I don't need to understand (or even agree with) someone's triggers; I just have to accept them. That's why I'm not participating in the Bella dom path discussion anymore - I disagree with what people are saying, but it seems to me, based on the content and (my) perceived tone of their posts, that it triggers them. I'm not going to minimize their triggers, or say that they're wrong. Because if something triggers you, it doesn't matter if you're right or wrong, or how many times some asshole tells you to "man up". That shit is a gut punch.
Also, I can't see the 2 images in your signature. Both give "404 file not found".