Rate according to your taste. Sometimes girls are too excitable, too easy, etc. so you can rate them maybe 8/10 for that category.so hopefully can clear up my confusion on the rating system. when rating pain management, am I rating the girl's responsiveness to the poking (1 for not loving it, 10 for loving it) or am I rating based on what I want the next girl's acceptance to be?
I don't think this is any different than physical characteristics. For instance, if you like large, but not extra large breasts but rate absolutely enormous breasts as 10/10 you will get more that are too large for you. Same goes for personality as best I can tell.