For pausing time, not really sure truthfully; I don't think there is. As for the slaves into Dolls: there should be an option to Kill and Convert the slave in the inspection screen. If there's not, I can think of two reasons:
1) The slave inspection mod doesn't seem to have the code for dolls in it; if you're using that, you might not get to do it, unfortunately.
2) It does have the 'extreme violence' tag in the file as well, so you might need the whole 'extreme content' mod set-up (which is as easy as creating a blank .txt file and then saving that as extremecontent.mod and putting it in the same folder as the application) <-Disregard that; there's two different versions of the event, one for extreme violence and one without, so it should be available regardless. Unless that block isn't working.