Being a lover has no benefit, having a date is nothing just waste your time.
You can have sex without being a lover, but if you are a lover there are tons of penalties.
Have another, had sex other, annoying date suggestion, drain your stemina with random event, ..etc.
This is a sex game, not a realistic dating simulator.
Sims are too easy to have sex, they always flirt to you, always ask a date, even there opinion stats are below 10.
then why you have a serious relationship in this game?
You can change opinions like cheating on parter, monogamy and that makes the sim just act like has no other lover, so don't have to be a lover. Only one benefit is they are not gonnna propose you.
It realy need to give benefits to being a lover. High opinion stat, being a friend, being a lover must to has a unique benefit, not just easy to sex. If you have a high opinion or are in a relationship, I think more sexual options should be provided at work.
and v sex not work right. it always raising arousal to only the actor, not to the actor and reciever both.