The answer is; we don't kid our self's. We know why we are here. Good sex scenes, we know know which game is good for that, good story? Oh, yeah, we know a few of those.
The mostly anticipated games for me are slow burn AVN. And in those sex scenes are welcome, but not mandatory...
When we have here (any game) good conversations, It's not that complicated to come to massage limit. I like a lot per day, even if I don't join the conversation every time. I'm on evening on limit... Probably 5-6 times per week. So I try to conserve few of them for later. It's 24 hour counter if I remember correctly, means it force you to give votes constant during the day, not all at once.