Haha okay well,I don't really like MIla's model, but I'll bite.
Mila is the first girl at the college to try to befriend Nika. She goes out of her way to let him know he can talk to her, potentially crossing boundaries by making it personally awkward. She also accepts some of Nika's statements at face value, even when they both know he is lying, so I'd say she's actively trying to help him fit in; by this, I mean she doesn't push the issue, and respects his right to keep things to himself. She also pushes Vic at Nika, she can see how much Vic and NIka both need friends.
Personally I don't like that last one, well meaning friends can be a curse at times, but her intention is good.
Lastly, she tries to be self sufficient, and is trying to make her own way.
Compared to Bella, Mila's actively working to minimise the affect of her past on her present. Bella's got a free playing field relatively speaking, and basically avoids moving forward because her life is comfortable enough that she can hide from painful questions.
As a model, Bella is better, but as far as personality traits, Bella's a loose canon, and Mila is far more trustworthy. You're judging Mila for things she did when she was a teenager, without keeping in mind Bella's an even worse level of two facedness. Consider how she treats Kate and even Robyn - 'judgemental, bigoted, cowardly' completely describes Bella.
She recognized Nika having seeerious (aka suicide killer) troubles and thinks linking him up with wheelchair girl is this smart glorious play. I think thats rather lame.
Like - im there for you - aka i introduce you to someone else and fuck off. I havent seen her doing a lot for Nika.
I wont mention how i think that out of a avn/story/movie/drama/whatever introducing a guy with the character of nika to a girl with the character of Vic would probably most likely not the best idea lol
Even in this story it can lead (play a part in) Nika becoming overwhelmed. You could argue he needs the shock therapy i guess lol
And didnt Nika meet the guys and Nami (again) before he did meet Mila? Maybe i remember it wrong but it was not like she was the one guiding him around introducing him to everyone, it was more people flocking around nami and nika lol
She has concluded that Nika needs help and told nika how she knew someone who killed themself and blames herself for her being passive just to procced to be ... passive with nika? I mean are introducing him to Vic (who he already knew and who already crushed on Nika) and ... i have to scroll up to find the other point ... oh yeah not pushing when he lies ... really these amazing feats you make them out to be?
Its not like she could not "respect his right to keep to himself" when the only other option is being simply shut down by him lol
Thanks for trying to make her more likeable for me tho Bob
Edit: I skipped the Bella part as i dont really see how that is related? Werent we talking about Mila? I only brought Bella up because of their history where Mila fucked up in ways i really cant stand. I blame her less for being afraid as a kid but i blame her for not taking any accountability for it at first until confronted about it and taking smack about bella despite the backstory.
She did not talked shit about bella because bella behaved shitty or bullied her, it was out of rejection and i REALLY cant stand people behaving like that. She felt entitled to bellas friendship, didnt got it because of her "betrayal" and started talking shit about her, thats just ugh
But this wasnt meant to compare bella and mila. If we start doing that, we can bury Mila already :>