Going over and over, I finally got to the point where I can get either a handjob or a blowjob from Emily.
Strange, when I first tried "Sexual Favors" it insisted on 5 or 10 affection points. So I kept hanging out with her at work, and it said I received affection points, yet the Heart Meter still says 4, but at least I can get a blowjob.
I guess I'll continue "hanging out" with her at work, building up the affection points (which will still only show as 4), and see what happens when I hit the magic number of 10.
Sadly, as already posted, not even a handshake comes departure time, and that's after shooting my wad down her throat. If that's not getting personal, nothing is.