The guide is written more for those worried that they are missing some content, rather than to facilitate avoiding stuff. I guess I could add the specifics of what scene gives liberation until what point, but your approach is kinda analogous to playing GTA without wanting to kill anyone
Tara is pan-sexual, and while many individual scenes are avoidable, the game offers no way around it. I think it's possible to complete Chapter 2 without having sex with any man except the count and Daniel, but that might require some grinding.
To get more liberation to unlock the cuddling-scene with Miri without involving men, going for Achilles might be the best option.