I can't help but stay skeptic over how poorly MD has cared about the communication around his game
What i feel from your post is, that it was written from a perspective of someone, who is actively spending money on creation of this game. You are not. In actual fact, noone is.
Noone is paying MD to make a game. No, the patreton is not for a game, and it is written so in the patreon itself (if you can read text with understanding). And even if it was made to support the game development, i bet my last, nailed to the tree sock, that not a single one person, that keeps consistently whining on this forum again and again, is actually paying for it.
" Some defenders here are gonna say "Well MD said he was working on it so we have to take his word for it", and yeah, he has
told us he was making progress, but he has never
shown us any progress "
where does this come from? Nobody is investing in this game. MD has no contracts to finish it. This game is being made as a hobby, and as a passion project - which to me, means: something you would love to make, because it doesn't exist and would be cool. This guy, is actually realizing his dream, at his own pace.
" We don't need more, just actual, concrete proof "
i don't see any reason he should "have to" provide proof. This is an unfunded, hobby, passion project by one person. Any content or "update" we receive should be looked at as a free gift, not an expected game dev. update. This isn't your bethesda, that needs to document their development to shareholders, neither is this your average F95 dev, who moderates his own game thread on this forum with updates, and has patreon set up directly for the game he is posting on. Again, this is just a passion project from a random person who owes you nothing.
"So until then, I'll just keep a safe distance from this game to avoid being dissapointed "
I only hope all of the consistent naysayers on this thread follow your advice.