Okay, thanks to
Titty Master I understand better the ntr and their variants and future updates will definitely not contain ntr like "Netorare" or "Netorase" or anything like that. God why is it so confusing... maybe someone should make a thread to explain the different types of ntr, it could be so useful!
It is very common to confuse the terms. Do not worry. In fact,
KnightoftheWhiteSun explained it very well.
Netorare: Only case in which the NTR tag should be used. Basically when the protagonist's love interests have sex with other people without his permission and to make him jealous, being unfaithful. There is often a debate about whether this applies even if the love interests are not in a relationship with the protagonist. But, just to be clear, to the community on this site who don't like NTR (including myself), we don't like our MC's love interests fucking other people than him. We like that love interests are only interested in the MC and no one else.
Netorase: In this case, the NTR tag should not be used. It consists in the fact that the protagonist wants, desires, likes and encourages his love interests to fuck with other people than him. Basically, when the protagonist is a cuckold. In this case, the tags that are usually used are swinging, because there are no others. LOL. Simply put, this is sharing and cuckold.
Netori: In this case, the NTR tag is not used either. This is the preferred by many (I also include myself). It is when our protagonist "steals" another man / woman's girlfriend or wife. When one of our love interests has a partner or is married and the protagonist romances her. "Stealing" doesn't have to be a bad thing precisely. Commonly used cases is when the partner of that love interest is unfaithful or their sexual life is null, and this is when our protagonist arrives. To meet the needs of that love interest. Both sexual and amorous. Considering that this is a romance game (I hope
), the MC would "steal" love interests from other people because he is falling in love with that love interest, not because he is a son of a bitch.
Hope this has helped! And, as an additional comment, as
look-see says, it would be nice if we are not forced into anything. That we are not forced into any sexual scene and that we have the freedom to decide who to romance and who not. And, of course, to decide which fetishes we want to see and which we want to avoid. Like he said, that our decisions matter.