I knew a girl in high school who insisted she was not a virgin because she gave a guy a blowjob, and that was sex to her: in her mind, she had sex with a guy, so she wasn't a virgin (I think she was just embarrassed to be a virgin).
fauxplayer said:
Some girls in Catholic/religious cultures have anal sex before vaginal sex to "keep their virginity," which seems rather technical; if I knew a girl who was having butt-sex with her boyfriend, I wouldn't think of her as a virgin lol.
Sure, but spot your own inconsistency in the two points above. Why does giving a blowjob mean she is still a virgin, but having anal sex means she isn't? Both are penetrative sexual acts which cannot result in pregnancy. Is it defined by being above or below the waist? Inquiring minds want to know.
For what it's worth, I think the girl you knew in high school was right. She stopped being a virgin once she gave a guy a blowjob. Does a gay man who doesn't do anal remain a virgin his entire life? I agree with the earlier poster who said that Tabi isn't a virgin when the game begins; she's been having sex with the princess. She does retain a certain technical virginity because a penis hasn't penetrated her vagina, I suppose, but then so do the religious girls having butt-sex with their boyfriends and, for that matter, the girl who has never had a man come inside her also retains a different sort of technical virginity, if she really wants to look at it that way.