whichone
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Yes, but enabling the behaviour by spoonfeeding them, as we've all seen happen plenty, doesn't help. Quite the opposite.You would be surprised to see how much both young and old person find this kind of things very difficult while it is natural for us to do. I personally have been in such occasions so much that i no longer find it surprising.
All it does is validate and encourage others to do the same.
As the old expression rightly states:
Give a man a fish and he can eat for a day.
Teach a man to fish and he can eat for a lifetime.