These options are the choices that the player can choose, but they are not yet available, they need to start or end an event before it becomes available. For this option to be released you need to ask her to play and beat her with other games so that she can accept that you are not cheating in the game. (spoilers)JRBGames
Here you see also something that shows as hidden but is still shown.
This happens with a lot of things. I think something wrong in the coding.