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Totally fair. I have no knowledge of this sort of thing IRL - only what I have come across in games and porn in general, with games typically written as (at best) dancing on the edges of abusive, and porn way past the edges nowadays (James Deen, Rocco Siffredi, etc.). So my IRL perspective may certainly be negatively influenced by all that, and folks that are into that may very well be just extending as fantasy into areas they would never go IRL. Thank you for calmly pointing out the distinction to an argumentative clown like myself.That is a hot iron, since its a topic what is highly subjective. and also something what has its roots in real life.
Yes, your point is from my point of view valid, in most games it is portrayed as abusive, and only a very few games convey what it takes and the responsability to the Dominant part.
and like it or not these games are an extension of your fantasie, so the whish and the idea is pretty much real it exists within our heads.
If you have convos with users which are IRL in such comunitys or live out this fantasie with their partners, it will show you another point of view, nobody is atacking you by the way, he is saying that to even roleplay there must be a solid base of Trust and mutual respect.
this is hard to see for someone from the outside, I think togs did his research and presented it quite close to the reality, with the necesary abstraction.
this is my point of view you may have yours it is valid as well.
And of course I never intended any slight whatsoever to Mr. Clothing the dev - I quite enjoy this game so I'm a fan, just one that's curious about how big the appetite out there is for a route like that. I could certainly find out that I'm the oddball for not being interested in it at all. Who knows?