So 3 updates later:
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Still not able to continue after this... Even went back a few save games.
I fixed it by pressing phone, calling someone, making a date, then an exception came, and I pressed ignore, and lois selected chloe, and the question was happy. I think that's not the way to go.
Of course I'm using the addon, could be, but without it, I'm a little lost sometimes, of what would be the better option...
Edit: Why the facepalm? If idiots keep doing that, I won't ever put bugs out here...