Still, as above, not played your game. All I can suggest is you do not respond to the personal replies, but you take them to heart. I'm not against Monkey, or anyone else taking you to task. I've not played this game, nor followed it. However I think getting into defending yourself / family / time schedules can come to no good.
Even of it's 10 renders, try to advance the plot, type 10,000 words, whatever you have to do, but try and stick to a one month schedule. Bring in the local whore for a few pics and a 5 frame animation.
Do not defend yourself. Get better, even if it means cheats, hacks and shortcuts. Look at the successful games, and think 'how can I emulate that with 10% of the time?'.
I will try and play your game, but I'm honestly trying to help you as as person, because that is what you appear to be on this forum.
I am a father of two young children and you appear amazing. Well done.