Ok, first, learn to use this thing called a period. It helps separate different thoughts in a sentence to make it more readable. No, a comma is not the same as a period.
Now then, there is a difference between having sex with a non-family vs. family. Have you thought that perhaps this is one of the main differences in the situation you describe? Another is the difference between two women having sex and a lame & female doing the same. It's the 'penetration' factor. I know less developed brains will say "sex is sex" but frankly, its a biological thing, because women can't get pregnant from sex with another woman like they can with another man. This saves some dude having to raise some other dude's kid. That's why most men I know, including myself, don't have an issue with women on women sex, and think it's all in kinky good fun.
Now being in love with someone is not the same as sex, you may not get that, but there is a distinction. Few like the idea of someone they love being in love with someone else because that's an emotional factor, as opposed to physical, so there is a major difference if that's involved. That doesn't seem to be the case here.
Hopefully this helps you understand the difference and why most would not consider woman on woman as 'cheating' unless the emotional aspect is involved too.
So if your girlfriend/wife has sex with another woman without you knowing it, it isn't called cheating but if she do the same with a guy it is. Man I must update my definition on cheating them, I must have been using the wrong dictionary
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Your point of "not consider woman on woman as 'cheating' unless the emotional aspect is involved too" can be used with a guy too, it won't be called cheating because the emotional aspect isn't there. I must keep updating my dictionary, thanks for the tips
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If a relationship can start being only a physical thing, it can later evolve from just enjoying their fun to a relationship with emotions. I know it can be shocking to that group, how you called them, oh yeah, less developed brains, but a physical relationship between womans can later develop in a relationship with emotions. I know shocking, who would have thought that womans can have feelings or develop feelings for each others, but hey you can still be thinking what you want and keep thinking that no matter how much sex between woman they got, they will still be with a man in the end.
I know that to many people being in love and sex are not a requirement, if that is what they think I respect that, I for my part have to have some kind of emotion with the person to have sex with them, but that's just my opinion and feelings on it, everyone can think and feel what they want.
My point with all the Mia being in love with the MC was that usually, when you are in love with someone and have relationships with that person, you usually don't go looking for more partners, be either man or woman, unless you are in some kind of open-relationship. If your girlfriend says to you I love you and then goes behind your back to have sex with other womans, you may not find it like a bad thing and maybe you will encourage it, but at the same time you said that if it was a guy you won't like it. So it must be shocking again, I know I know, but to some people when their partner goes behind his/her back to have sex with others it is cheating, even if it was a woman x woman scenary. I wouldn't like to know that my girlfriend was fucking her best friend behind my back, you may find it hot, but I don't, mostly it is because of the doing it all behind the back thing. Same thing happened with Mia and Elsa, you only find after it happened, so if my parnert that says that loves me goes behind my back it isn't hot, it's cheating.
But well, looking at what you think and what I think, it would be better if we agree to disagree and just say that we have diferent tastes/kinks and different opinions and leave it a that. Writing in a language that isn't your first while you try to express what you want is kind of tiring so...I hope I used the period better this time