Youu don't know what NTR is so I won't argue with your weird logic. Yes, people cheat lol.
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What do you mean, disagree? Pretty much everything I said was a fact, not an opinion.
Nothing is weird, google the modern definition of netorare. Netorare isn't just about cheating. There are sister ntr, mother ntr, friend ntr, etc.
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You are stating your opinion as fact, which makes you seem super disingenuous. You seem, based on what you have written ITT to have a view point of relationships and women that seems rooted in soggy knees, whether you believe so or not. That is also fine, as this is a porn forum, not a chapel. The fact you seem to think NTR is realistic strikes me as strange, and a quite a bit weird.
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Any tag if developed well can involve the player, in my opinion in general, every story must contain a conflict between the moral position of the characters and the fight for that position.
And I also believe that for this reason there are exclusive NTR fans, because many stories with this tag often trigger the aforementioned conflict (albeit often poorly managed).
And I also believe that for this reason there are exclusive NTR fans, because many stories with this tag often trigger the aforementioned conflict (albeit often poorly managed).
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What you described as misogyny is cynism by the definition of the word—so this part was a fact. What I said about human biology is what they teach at Stanford when you learn evolutionary biology of humans, so this was a fact, too. The divorce rates in most modern countries are as high as 50% this is a fact and it's also a fact that the most common reason for divorce is infidelity. If you google the statistics, you'll find that in the USA over a 40 year period, 67 percent of first marriages end up in divorces.
So yeah, pretty much all I said in that quote is a fact, not an opinion. My actual opinion about ntr is an opinion, but you didn't quote that part of my post.
- Jul 29, 2017
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There are people like this. Not saying it is a majority but a substantial number. History (globally) is full of examples.
Men and women can be sexual predators. Many of the women in porn today have very high sex drives. They would still like to pair up with someone but many guys can't handle the fact the beautiful woman who likes them may have sucked or still be sucking stranger dick.
It really boils down to whether or not sex and love can exist without the other. Can you love someone without fucking them, and can you fuck someone without loving them? Again, I think history is loaded with examples that it is possible to separate the two. Maybe not for everyone, but it's not that rare.
We (people in the West) tend to see everything through a Judeo-Christian lens. We don't think about how some peoples have lived for centuries, where every man in the group is considered a father to the children of the tribe (due to group breeding). In some cultures, paternity isn't important, and actually would undermine social cohesion.
Whatever turns people on is cool with me. I don't judge fetishes or narratives. People can't control what turns them on, or who they fall in love with.
I recommend "
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". It is a magnificent read on sexual dynamics over history, and the social consequences of different systems of mating and breeding.Yes, they do not understand sexual dynamics and have naive expectations of romantic relationships.
Low self-esteem is probably at the root of most modern social issues.
Studies have shown that wealth isn't that important. Character trumps money and looks. A man with a purpose and passion is often irresistible.
Often the superior dick is attached to the superior man. The stronger man, the more capable man, the more accomplished man, and yes, in those circumstances, there are women who will "trade up". There is a reason why women are so discriminating about who they date and sleep with. Why married women with beautiful kids cheat with their husband's brother, or a co-worker. Women don't conform to men's expectations of their behavior. We've been trying for thousands of years with little success.
Women and men cheat constantly, and always have, ever since we tried to make monogamy the only model. On the surface, people go to church and make like they are chaste but the sex drive will not be denied. Just like when homosexuality has been condemned and made illegal, people were still doing it. Reproduction is the highest priority of most living species.
As far as some women becoming cock-sleeves, I'd recommend you look into the BDSM space. There is no shortage of women (and men) who want to be "owned" by someone else. To be taken care of by someone else to surrender their agency to someone else. It turns them on, and on some level, fulfills them.
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Reality and fantasy often do not coincide, it can happen that you do not want to be a spectator of something that can involve you in reality but, it can also happen that something excites you that you would not face in reality because you are sure that that event cannot occur or, at the limit , if it happened you know that you would not react like the character of a fantastic story you are spectating (in any case you feel safe because you only feel involved as a spectator).
In this regard, every opinion is positive if it does not mentally disturb the person.
In this regard, every opinion is positive if it does not mentally disturb the person.
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and then the community roar with philosophers well as radicals with denialism.
I always like a thread with ntr because people would come out from far south and north just to spark a ntr / non-ntr war talk.
My view on NTR is like an alcohol beverage. Depend on what kind of brand and condition alcohol you drink.
I say the finest wine which for NTR is a lady did cheat / NTR situation fuckery occur and the guy(MC) tough it up and beat the asshole up , get his relationship with the lady together and move on.
Bad pint would be a nonsense situation NTR to occur which can be avoid but for some "plot" reason is fallen to debauchery , the art and story bad, MC or FMC like a unusual cuck with bad reason could save his/her lover but for "plot" reason which i will drop and called it bad writing.
It would need to be logical reason for NTR to occur otherwise is like a forced fuckery show with no goal nor pathway or plan. There also need to be reaction from the affected otherwise the whole thing would be "cheating" genre which is a grey boundary between genre of "cheating" or "NTR".
If you want to play a NTR game, i suggest you DON'T put yourself in when you play unless you want to suffer the pain as the MC/FMC or you're a masochists pig. Just enjoy the Shakespeare's show like a proper audience you are.
If you don't want to play, that fine.
Sex and love aren't really connected that well. Very often people fall in love or have a crush on someone way before having sex with them. There would be no one-sided crushes if it wasn't the case. And obviously, sex doesn't need love in the first place, otherwise, this forum and porn, in general, wouldn't exist. A male's libido isn't connected to love in the slightest. It's a bit different for women who, in the vast majority of cases, need an emotional connection to enjoy sex.
Emotional pain is the whole point of ntr. Nothing wrong with that, the best stories are the best because they can make you, the reader, feel strong emotions, good or bad. It's like telling people to stop feeling empathy towards characters in a drama so that they wouldn't cry. People watch melodramatic shows and read dramatic fiction to cry, most people love it when fiction provokes emotions in them, even negative ones. For example, Fumetsu no Anata e and The Green Mile are loved for how much of a tearjerker they are. Of course, there are always psychopaths who feel nothing watching such shows and there are those who don't like those emotions, but they are the minority.
It's a pop science book with a lot of big talk and little actual rigor. Good for biotruthing, but dismissed by actual social anthropologists.
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I don't have a lot of time for critics who have not read it, or looked at the extensive footnoting.
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lol I voted "I like netorase" when I thought I was voting for netori (which you should have included in the poll by the way)
In other words, I only enjoy NTR content when you're the one (as the protag) cuckolding someone else. I really dig the idea of seducing (or even corrupting if you will) someone's wife or girlfriend... to the point that said girl would reach such a level of lust that she would willingly cheat on her loved one with the protag so we can self-insert as well.
So yeah if it's netori then I'm down, otherwise ntr from the cuck POV is a hard pass for me.
In other words, I only enjoy NTR content when you're the one (as the protag) cuckolding someone else. I really dig the idea of seducing (or even corrupting if you will) someone's wife or girlfriend... to the point that said girl would reach such a level of lust that she would willingly cheat on her loved one with the protag so we can self-insert as well.
So yeah if it's netori then I'm down, otherwise ntr from the cuck POV is a hard pass for me.
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You know, I'll read an NTR plot, but I'm usually just rooting for the girl if she's like enjoying herself. Usually a majority of quick NTR plots will setup the most barebones relationship to ruin without depth, so I could care less. I tend to find the corruption aspect more fascinating.
That's fine. The comment was meant not for you, but to advise other people to take it with a grain of salt and if they're interested about the topic, look at what anthropologists say and not a couple of psychologists working outside their field.I don't have a lot of time for critics who have not read it, or looked at the extensive footnoting.