ok, Tech Support got in touch with me and now I have a different problem, back on that in a moment.
1. open Command Prompt in admin mode
2. copy and paste "regsvr32 /u MSCOMCTL.OCX" hit enter
3. download and extract the MSCOMCTL file attached and put it in your system32 folder (C:\Windows\System32) replace files if necessary.
4. go back to the command prompt, copy and paste "regsvr32 MSCOMCTL.OCX"
5. Restart your computer.
NOTE: I know this is registering into system 32 which only 32 bit windows uses, I'm using 64 bit windows and this is what worked, I don't know what tomfuckery is happening either.
after doing this I was no longer getting the mscomctl.ocx error, but I was getting a new one upon trying to open a girl, this time for comdlg32.ocx if you get the same error, just follow these instructions:
1. open Command Prompt in admin mode
2. copy and paste "regsvr32 /u comdlg32.ocx" hit enter
3. download and extract the comdlg32 file attached and put it in your system32 folder (C:\Windows\System32) replace files if necessary.
4. go back to the command prompt, copy and paste "regsvr32 comdlg32.ocx"
5. Restart your computer.
( I know its the same instructions with the name change)
Now the new issue is that the video still isn't appearing, but now if open the game in Admin mode and select a girl the damn thing crashes, I sent an email to Support telling them about the new problem, I'll post if it gets resolved