KingWeWuz

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Cat girl triggers me... I liked her at first then I got cucked by a dog and she liked it. Fucking NTR!!!
Honestly, I don't like watching other people fuck the potential members of the mc harem, but I wouldn't call that ntr. Remember, they aren't established as love interests yet so it would fall under the category of voyeur.

If you wanna point out ntr it would be closer to suggest when she's raped by the yakuza in the bad end.
 
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It's not the animal. It's the "OH EM GEE I am gonna act hysterical if this pirated pron game shows me a dick i can't believe is my own because that would be ntr and I'd rather die than be subjected to it in a fictitious context"-crowd.

Nobody cares.
This may be trolling/bait, but I will go ahead and bite. Seeing a dick that isn't your own isn't ntr. That's just a dick. Bad take.
 
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I expected this kind of update since the MC has so many ntr psuedo-rivals going on: The celebrity old ugly guy with drugs, the wealthy asshole at the school, the fat fuck otaku who got a footjob, the yakuza assholes, and the coach who he thought was fucking both the sleepy girl and is probably still fucking the principal.

That's fine. But the tags should reflect that. In the genre section he should add "avoidable ntr" and tag the game "ntr." I'm not saying anything controversial.
The tags reflect the content that is already on the game, none of the instances you mention qualify as such.

One of the fundamental traits of NTR is that you are meant to feel sorry for the character being cuck by way of making you aware that their relationship or sentimental attachment is being destroyed or corrupted in some way, with the victim ussually being made aware of it.

However, YOUR personal feelings to the characters themselves doesn't matter, only the character's feelings do.

Take Minami as an example, at the the time of her potential rape, she was considered an annoyance that needed to be dealt with by the MC, she getting raped on the train was even an expected outcome by him, the only reason he stepped forward is because (in the only route rigth now) the MC ends up with guilt for leaving some girl to such a fate, but there was never a romantic or even friendly interest from any side, that came afterwards.

Nobody cares.
Were that to be true this discussion wouldn't exist, but some obviously do care.
 

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It's not the animal. It's the "OH EM GEE I am gonna act hysterical if this pirated pron game shows me a dick i can't believe is my own because that would be ntr and I'd rather die than be subjected to it in a fictitious context"-crowd.

Nobody cares.
nobody cares about other dicks. its when said dick makes clam chowder in a pussy they tagged.
 
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That is why I hate when people fuck up terminology. For the third(?) and hopefully last time: NTR, Netoare is the destruction of a relationship, usually in stricter interpretations romantic) by the seduction/rape of one of the partners. The sympathy and loss of relative power is the focus. It evokes weakness, a submission fantasy.
Netori is the same situation from a completely different angle. In this one the emtional focal point is the one perpetrating the act, the seducer. It is a power fantasy.
They are literally opposite perspectives on the situation, with opposite emotional responses.
And since media and art hinge on emotional reaction, it is important that we are honest with these terms. If I seek out a game expecting a power fantasy, I'll be fucking disgusted when I have my expectations subverted by getting cucked. Entertainment is not medicine, literally nobody gets to tell me what I "need" or gets to take that choice from me. And when you try to do so by deception, let me tell you, I will not be grateful. Even in the unlikely case that I happen to like the content I find.
 

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Anyone else not able to download this image from the wallpapers mega?

11. December 2019 > 04 Bitch Pool > WA_H&A06dec2019

Keeps giving an infinite 'temp error'..
 

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Not to continue with the pointless netorare debate, but this game should have the ntr tag, there is netori in the game and since the netori tag won't be added for some reason they have to use the ntr one.
 
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There used to be a decent essay on the topic as well, but the site is 404'd.
If your german skills are up to it, there is a half decent wikipedia article in the german wiki.
Plus half forgotten psychology and linguistics courses at Uni.
was one of the resources I used way back when. Its the summary of a symposium about emotional experiences and stories. (I remember this one because it was a great course.)
The two overwhelming triggers for male consumers are usually the helplessnes if they identify with the protagonist and jealousy for someone "getting" the (idealised) girl.
Another source is if we form a parasocial relationship with the figures, making it easier to get upset on their behalf. This mostly applies to longer running media, however. We feel that the character is an actual friend of ours, and when terrible things happen to that friend we get upset.
then theres the emotional torture porn aspect if you are more detached and simply enjoy the protags misery.
A lot of the hatred comes from the immersion in the protagonist, a visceral hatred is a fairly natural reaction in that case. If we put ourselves in the shoes of the perpetrator on the other hand, we get the secondhand feeling of accomplishment, the inverse. Then theres people identifying with the middle character, usually the girl. I won't get into that one here, this derail is bad enough already.
The emotional response to a piece of literature / movie / game is ultimately subjective, but there are statistically signifcant clusters. Certain types of story and actions invoke predictable feelings in most viewers, to be infuriatingly vague here.

Edit to clarify: I would have described myself as more than competent 5 years ago. But most of that knowledge is completely irrelevant to my job, and thus more hazy than I'd like.
 
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I am fine with letting it lie, but I do recommend another look at your own source, since as I understand the wording there, it does not say what you claim.

"1. The heroine either must be romantically involved with the protagonist, a potential romance for him or of someone that the protagonist shares such a close relationship (sister, mother, osananajimi etc.) that jealousy is a factor. "

"If we're going to flatly go by the best example of current content in game: matoko giving the mc a bj in the dream sequence was flat ntr. "
1. Matoko is not the heroine
2. The NTR'd male is not the MC
Meaning the scene meets none of the requirements described in point 1 of your source definition.
Even if it is a dream from the wimps perspective, it is constantly played out that he has no chance, removing the potential romance option. Close relationships require reciprocity, a simple crush or obsession does not meet that.

Your hypothetical fails the relationship part and emotional attachment part. Seeing firsthand how something horrible happens to another human being is called empathy. To regret when you go too far is just not being a psychopath.

The term NTR has simply been stretched and abused to the point of near uselessnes. It got conflated with its polar opposite for gods sake. At the same time, because it is a rather extreme fetish, it has become emotionally hypercharged. Great.
 

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I am fine with letting it lie, but I do recommend another look at your own source, since as I understand the wording there, it does not say what you claim.

"1. The heroine either must be romantically involved with the protagonist, a potential romance for him or of someone that the protagonist shares such a close relationship (sister, mother, osananajimi etc.) that jealousy is a factor. "

"If we're going to flatly go by the best example of current content in game: matoko giving the mc a bj in the dream sequence was flat ntr. "
1. Matoko is not the heroine
2. The NTR'd male is not the MC
Meaning the scene meets none of the requirements described in point 1 of your source definition.
Even if it is a dream from the wimps perspective, it is constantly played out that he has no chance, removing the potential romance option. Close relationships require reciprocity, a simple crush or obsession does not meet that.

Your hypothetical fails the relationship part and emotional attachment part. Seeing firsthand how something horrible happens to another human being is called empathy. To regret when you go too far is just not being a psychopath.

The term NTR has simply been stretched and abused to the point of near uselessnes. It got conflated with its polar opposite for gods sake. At the same time, because it is a rather extreme fetish, it has become emotionally hypercharged. Great.
I don't know why you decided to do this with me when I thought we could just drop it on a "we both disagree with one another" note. I don't know why you felt the need to pursue this one. It should go without saying we're not going to change one another's minds.

-The reason I'm saying the scene regarding matoko calls for the ntr tag is because it falls under netori and ntr is the universal tag for it here.
-If you're arguing the definition requires the individual have a chance, you did not look carefully enough at the definition. It only requires that the relationship be close enough that jealousy is a factor. The term is ambiguous enough to cover: your sister, mom, or even crush. Also, we could dig into the philosophy of what it means from our perspective and his perspective. Clearly he at least thinks his own odds are high enough that he delivers a love letter, so even if we don't perceive him as a possible relationship candidate, he obviously considers that of himself. Heck let's not forget his scam e-girl telling him he has hope. And if we're going even further down this line of thought considering another scene featuring the catgirl (minami i think?) should at absolute minimum qualify.
-relationships do not require equal reciprocity. Their relationship as I understand was boy with a crush and girl who wasn't interested.
-I don't know why you're bringing up empathy. It was clearly intended to be ntr from his perspective at minimum. My mind will not change on that.
-It can't even exist without it's "opposite." The situation is the literal same. You're arguing a mostly undefined term can't be used in the context you have personally believed it to be best defined as. The ntr tag is more universal and the genre portion allows more specifics. Hence, why I said he should at minimum tag this ntr and specify netori.
-Other events, such as the ones I've previously brought up would qualify even then. The gangsters raping her after beating you up.
-It's an extremely polarizing fetish. And I don't understand the last comment, are you looking down on others for getting emotionally invested in the erotica here?


Having said all that I'm going to end our debate now. If you'd like feel free to take the last word.
 
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a lot of fighting, it is netori if it is not forced, for it to be ntr it has to be forced, in case it is netori it would be better that it be under the cheating label since it is closer than ntr
 
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