I cant talk to the girls, not even a phone cal or phone doesnt show up.
If the phone isn't there it is likely the GUI that's died.
Did you activate/open the console? I've found opening the console, even if you don't change a variable, can break the GUI. If the GUI gets broken, then you can't do anything.
If you want/need to use the console, make sure you are in the middle of a conversation. I've also had it break in the car menu or Free Roam can break the GUI. Only in conversation thus far, have I not had it break the GUI.
Restarting/reloading doesn't always fix it. Sometimes if you rollback it can fix it... but mixed results.