Based on the story it seems many of them have been working the job that they are doing for multiple years, probably close to at least 5-10 years. Also some of them have cat ears and shit. None of them look like they are under 18. There is a character who is mother to two adult children as well.
Surprisingly it has actually gotten a lot better. The only long load time left is starting the game. The old loading screens used to be god awful as well but they have been drastically improved.
I don't remember having issues with that but I also did it when that was the end of a patch. Maybe try to save and then load again, that will fix quite a few things.
If I remember correctly after the shower she went onto the bed. Or I went in to the bathroom ad talked to her which she did not like and then went to the bed. I don't remember but it does work.
Probably need to hit the motel and talk to the people in the front area. It is on the island with the house as opposed to the main island with all the businesses.
