You did not just ask a question, you put a condition behind, "is like that? because if not, I am out..." that is emotional blackmail, you give a question but put a condition on it hoping that the guilt she will feel of not answering your expectations will push her to make the game your way... if you did not do it on purpose, the crap you are getting now should be a nice reminder to not do the same thing next time, and if you just do not care insist on it, well, in that case, you just diserved to get your nose rubbed in it...
On another subject, thank you Sylvie Dreams, a nice little party... ^^
I thought it would come later on, the big clash with the boyfriend view of love, so now I am really curious you are going to turn this in the future updates...